Valentine's Day approaches. Consumed by the narrow confines of romantic love, re-imagined by corporate campaigners, we go in search of the perfect love gift, destined to fall short of our lover's expectations. And if we are not partnered at this moment in time, we pine - no chocolates for me, no commercial perfect kiss or sly glance across the candle lit table. So instead of bothering with all that crap - think LOVE in a big way. Love yourself, embrace your family, love